I know, a silly question to be asking an adult, but in reality, we are always growing and we are always learning. As I often say, "Every day is a school day." I used to say that to my students when I was a teacher and to my teachers when I was a principal, and I truly believe that you can learn from everyone you come in contact with, regardless of the perceived position he/she or you hold in relation to each other. Each day I learn from my children, and I hope they learn from me =). I still learn from my parents (sometimes how NOT to act, but that is still learning nonetheless).
It is all about having the confidence and strong self-esteem to recognize that you do not have all the answers and that the only person who matters with regards to judging you, is YOU. How you perceive the world and see yourself as a part of it, dictates the way you handle situations, interact with others, and answer questions seemingly as simple as "What do you want to be when you grow up?"
Since we continue to grow and evolve, I should rephrase the question to, "Now that you have accomplished _____, what challenge do you want to conquer next?" or "Since the latest outcome in your life has resulted in ________ (losing a job, breaking up with a loved one, earning a new position or coming into a lot of money), what will be the next move you make to make your life richer and therefore richer for those you care about?"
It is all in how you look at things, especially yourself. Edison never failed, he just discovered ways that didn't work to the standard he was hoping. If you are at a crossroad in your life, or a time where you are questioning "What it all means?" then this is the perfect time to answer my question.
When answering it, view yourself how YOU want to be viewed, not how you think others view you. Remember, you are looking back at yourself in the mirror, and your life and actions are a reflection on you and you alone.
Some readers of my blog, as well as advisors of mine, feel that sometimes I am way too serious. Those who know me in life realize that although I am a bit intense and goal driven, I am one of the sillier people around. However, when it comes to living the life you were meant to lead, I find it to be a serious manner, and if viewed that way, you will be able to live the carefree life of a person who is more than pleased with the path his life is taking.
Notice I didn't say "content," for contentment breeds complacency, which will lead you back to the place of "What is it all worth?" Live each day as a challenge to be more fun, more full, and more enriching than the one before and contentment/complacency will never be an issue, because you will be living a truly happy life.
On the subject of how you view things, I came across this FUNNY. . . .yes FUNNY video that effectively demonstrates the idea of perception. Your perception is fact to you, as other's is fact to them. Enjoy this video and begin looking at yourself the way you want other to see you.
I am still waiting for your answer?
Peace,
Randy
P.S. Also, as an artist, I LOVED this person's clever work.
